You notice your partner weird lately. You don't really know what's wrong with him. You start to think that his strange behaviour is due to a third person. Infidelity. With each passing day you have it clearer. However, you still have no clear evidence that he is cheating on someone else.

Well, don't worry, dear reader. There are signs that give away all infidels. If you really want to discover if your partner is having an affair or a lover, read on. If not, better get off the page now. You know that eyes that do not see, heart that does not feel.

If you still have doubts at the end of the article, we offer you an unsolicited tip: trust your intuition. The doubts do not appear by themselves. Also, the key to a relationship working properly is based on mutual trust. If you have reached the point of searching the internet for "signs of infidelity", bad plan.

Leave it, or talk seriously. Always trust your feelings and what is best for you. And think that there are many fish in the sea and that many times you have to add courage to leave something that does not make you completely happy.

Having said this, we are going to what we have come to: these are the signs that betray all unfaithful:

1. It is distant

One of the clearest signs of infidelity is the emotional distance shown by the person who cheats on his partner. You are suddenly withdrawn or depressed. He has nothing to tell, he speaks what is fair and necessary and it seems that he does not care how the day has gone even for the person with whom he shares a roof.

The infidels go from being attentive, close and reliable individuals to the opposite. If you have noticed that your love affair is distant lately, it does not write / look / touch you as before, be careful.

And, beware, this distance the infidel does not have with the people around him. In fact, the other way around: he becomes more loving with others around him, be they friends, co-workers, parents or children.

2. Everything seems wrong

He gets angry or criticises everything. It can even be quite cruel with your comments. You always have the same routine and suddenly it seems bad. Or maybe the series you were watching together now bores him and he prefers to be on the phone or absorbed in "his" things.

If you have noticed that your partner has been growling lately because of everything I liked before, and he does not accept any new plan, chances are he is hitting on you.

3. He thinks you control him

The third point in the list of signs of infidelity we have the issue of control. Infidels often complain that their partner controls them, when they themselves are trying to control everything around them so that they are not caught.

Be clear, reader, that those who cheat have great stress: to the nerves that they do not discover the affair they add the classic fears and regrets. However, this is something that those who have already cheated more than once do very well.

So if you start to notice that your partner feels that you control him, or that he suddenly feels bad that you ask him what he is doing or what time he is going to get home, bad plan.

4. Think that you are unfaithful

Maluma already said it in one of his songs, "if you do it, imagine it". The infidels believe that their partner cheats on them, and they make many comments about it or suddenly show jealousy with the people around their love.

If you noticed lately that your partner is worried about if you manage different, who you date, by whom you write or have jealous of someone around you ... distrusts. The thief thinks that they are all of his condition, do not forget it.

5. You have changed your habits

The fifth sign and one of the clearest is that you have changed your habits. For example, now he leaves work late, has many trips, has joined the gym or has a new padel group. Weird, weird, friend.

Also, and what is worse, he does not realize that he is spending less and less time with you, he even seems not to care. "That's the way it is, love." Flees .

6. It is arranged more

Your partner now pays special attention to their appearance. She buys new clothes, she has lost weight, she gets better, she goes to the gym, she looks more in the mirror ... They are clear signs that she likes someone, and that someone is not you.

7. You have new tastes

Your sweetheart now has more energy for life in general. He does new things, listens to different music, and has a sudden interest in a hobby or sport that he didn't even know existed before.

You ask him about it and he answers you with hesitation or directly lies: "No, it is a book that Fulanito has told me about ..." or "I have always liked flamenco" are phrases that alert you. You know it's not like that. When you are unfaithful, you often feel devotion to the interests of your new illusion, and you want to participate in them.

8. Be careful with your mobile

He has never been jealous with his smartphone but for weeks he has been tense when he vibrates or smiles strangely at the screen. It also turns him upside down when you're next to him or gets nervous and blocks him if you get close. If so, be clear: at least micro- unfaithful is being, that is, when a person feels desire or attraction to another, they fool around, they talk, but it has not happened to anything carnal.

One thing that many infidels do is silence conversations on WhatsApp, Twitter or Instagram, so that the ads do not appear on the screen. We do not tell you to look at his mobile, far from it, that it is also a crime, but if you perceive that suddenly he has five new notifications and that none has jumped on the screen, it can be for two reasons: he is his lover or a group that has been silenced.

9. Ask for more privacy

For a few days, your partner has had an obsessive need for "privacy" and to stay up until late at night to work on the computer or read on the mobile. And what is more suspicious: it does not give you explanations of what it is doing.

All this creates a chasm between you that is difficult to overcome, and can be an irrefutable sign of infidelity, since those who cheat often need to isolate themselves from their partner as much as possible.

10. sex is different

Other signs of infidelity include noticing something different about the sex life of both. It might have gotten better or worse. Or that before it was very abundant and now scarce, or vice versa. This is a clear sign that your partner is not sleeping alone with you.

The infidels do not react the same with the sexual issue: some feel guilty so they show more desire, others suddenly do not feel attraction to their partner, there are some who are always tired, there are others who suddenly want to try new things. .. There your intuition is already playing, reader.

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