7 Hidden Signs your Ex is Pretending to Be Over You

Does he still love you? Does her little heart still beat for you? Although in love there is nothing entirely certain, there are some signs that indicate that your ex has not forgotten you. If you have decided not to return to him, these signs should convince you that "being friends" for now is not a good idea. However, if you are still interested perhaps not all is lost. Of course: speak. Say things clearly so that you do not misinterpret signs and you are disappointed.

So, What are the signs your ex is pretending to be over you ?

1. Find any excuse to talk to you

That you left a jacket in his house, that if you remember what the bar was called the one they went to 3 years ago, that is simply boring. Your dear ex looks for any excuse to write to you and even calls you. No, not only does he talk to you at dawn (probably looking for sex); seems to have you present at any time of the day. Maybe he doesn't tell you that he misses you, but it's obvious, he doesn't stop thinking about you. If he is more seasoned (or is more desperate) he will even tell you head-on.

2. Maintain contact with your family or friends

It is true that if you end up with your ex it does not mean that none of your friends or family can greet him again. However, the logical thing is that he keeps his distance and breaks the ties that linked them. If your ex insists on inviting your brother to play ball, it can be a pretext so that somehow or other they end up talking about him.

3. When they meet, they stay by your side

If they have mutual friends they are likely to meet in some meetings from time to time. Nor do they have to sacrifice their social life to avoid seeing each other. Still if your ex is looking and looking for opportunities for the two of you to be alone or not taking off from you all night, it would be a bit (quite) strange.

4. Jealousy, jealousy, jealousy

If your ex finds out that you are dating someone new, whether it's because of a photo on Facebook or because a friend is commenting on it and getting mad, he may still have unresolved issues. If he is looking for you to complain, do not forget to make it clear that yours is over and avoid misplaced discussions. On the other hand, if he tells you that he is dating a new girl or begins to fill his Facebook with photos with other ladies, perhaps his intention is that the one who dies of jealousy is you. Enough games… Next.

5. Always ask for your help 

If, in the event of any problem, your ex calls or writes to let off steam or asks to see you whenever he is discouraged, it is a sign that he still does not adapt to the idea that you are no longer his girl. You may attend to it because you want to be a good friend, but in the long run that will generate dependency and a vicious circle between you. Put the stop even if your heart wrinkles.

6. Talk about the past and highlight how much fun you had with mutual friends.

When he doesn't stop talking about how much fun they had together and how much he misses you, it's because he certainly needs you in his life and he couldn't leave you behind.

7. Still giving you compliments.

Faced with messages like "how beautiful you are", "how lucky I was to have you", it means that he is still in love with you.

Be that as it may, if you have decided that relationship ended, it ended. Don't let yourself be enveloped by spontaneous acts of romanticism or mistreatment by a whimsical boy. Before giving your ex a second chance, think carefully about the reasons why they decided to finish in the first place. If nothing in you has changed, it is very likely that your problems will also remain the same.